Thanks, Marty. Yes, and it helps us “endure criticism” by remembering that it’s “their stuff,” not ours. I always think “what would the Budda (or Jesus) do right now?” If the person is acting any more critical than the Budda or Jesus (representing non-ego), then I know it’s that person’s “stuff” – and not mine to take on. It’s all a learning process though, that’s for sure!
No…the ego is the thin outer layer (judgment, competition, worry – anything that vibrates lower than Love). But it certainly seems to take some practice to undo the years of training that we have in ego-land! Yes, it is indeed a whopper when we misread. Take heart in the fact that your abilities and intuition are likely more honed now!
Gale – certainly many have had their dreams squashed, or even the possibility. It’s easy to be cynical or limited in that situation. I consider myself very lucky that I am able to be more supportive/positive about dreams than many people are able to be.
Patrick – thanks for the note. Yes, we always write our own stories…it’s just a matter if we’re aware and choosing. It sounds like you’re ready to be in that new space – congrats!
we always judges other by our opinions, our benchmarks, and so is done by others for us and it simply does not matter. what matters is what I think of me and do I actually know or have the courage to know the same or not.
So perfect today- thank you.
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kimberlyharding said this on December 19, 2014 at 10:16 am |
Kim – see note below. Glad it spoke to you.
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Julianna said this on December 19, 2014 at 10:46 am |
Kim – I had a powerful sense to post this specific one today. Maybe it was because you needed it!
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Julianna said this on December 19, 2014 at 10:45 am |
Remember happiness is an internally property
We need endure criticism, praise and indifference as impermanent and subject to change at anytime.
When we can let go the desire for approval and fear of criticism, freedom arrives
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Marty said this on December 19, 2014 at 11:15 am |
Thanks, Marty. Yes, and it helps us “endure criticism” by remembering that it’s “their stuff,” not ours. I always think “what would the Budda (or Jesus) do right now?” If the person is acting any more critical than the Budda or Jesus (representing non-ego), then I know it’s that person’s “stuff” – and not mine to take on. It’s all a learning process though, that’s for sure!
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Julianna said this on December 22, 2014 at 9:30 am |
We are excellent except in our blind its
I think I am a good judge of character and most would agree but when I misread, it is a whopper
Blind spots
Well our ego knows us well, or is he/she us?
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Marty said this on December 22, 2014 at 11:17 am |
No…the ego is the thin outer layer (judgment, competition, worry – anything that vibrates lower than Love). But it certainly seems to take some practice to undo the years of training that we have in ego-land! Yes, it is indeed a whopper when we misread. Take heart in the fact that your abilities and intuition are likely more honed now!
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Julianna said this on December 22, 2014 at 11:49 am |
Reblogged this on Not Just Sassy on the Inside.
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yogaleigh said this on December 19, 2014 at 11:58 am |
Thanks for reblogging and sharing the uplift!
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Julianna said this on December 22, 2014 at 9:32 am |
Reblogged this on galesmind and commented:
Exactly live your own dream. Perhaps they have none that is why they criticize.
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Gale A. Molinari said this on December 19, 2014 at 12:12 pm |
Gale – certainly many have had their dreams squashed, or even the possibility. It’s easy to be cynical or limited in that situation. I consider myself very lucky that I am able to be more supportive/positive about dreams than many people are able to be.
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Julianna said this on December 19, 2014 at 2:35 pm |
Very well said!
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amommasview said this on December 19, 2014 at 5:12 pm |
Thanks, ammommasview! And thanks for stopping by!
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Julianna said this on December 22, 2014 at 9:24 am |
That thought ties in so well with what I have been dealing with for almost three years. Time to write my story the way I want it to be!
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Patrick said this on December 19, 2014 at 6:13 pm |
Patrick – thanks for the note. Yes, we always write our own stories…it’s just a matter if we’re aware and choosing. It sounds like you’re ready to be in that new space – congrats!
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Julianna said this on December 22, 2014 at 9:31 am |
we always judges other by our opinions, our benchmarks, and so is done by others for us and it simply does not matter. what matters is what I think of me and do I actually know or have the courage to know the same or not.
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Nirmal Bajwa said this on December 20, 2014 at 2:48 am |
❤
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jbboissonneau said this on December 20, 2014 at 10:19 am |
🙂
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Julianna said this on December 22, 2014 at 9:24 am |